Thursday, February 9, 2012
Why Try?
Crushes are common, first loves happen, you get butterflies when you get a certain look, and wearing his letterman jacket is a huge ordeal! High school relationships in a literal sense are completely pointless because realistically only four percent tend to actually work out to marriage. Why stress over having a boyfriend or girlfriend when in all actuality it will probably end in unessecary tears, heartbreak that is not worth it at all, and humiliation? If you do not date seriously in high school you do not have to worry about these emotions, you do not really have to worry about rejection. You do not have to listen to your parents lecture to you on the level of seriousness your getting into, we all hate listening to that speech. The movies that always lead you to believe that it works out in the end perfectly, we know statistically those are not real. They only create an image in your mind to make you think that in order for it to be a happy ending it has to end just like that. You run out on the football field and kiss him in the rain. But sometimes it is worth it, completely worth it. So who cares what people think of your "serious relationship" if you think it is real put everything you have into it, do not hold back because you just might end up being that four percent that prevails in the end. Do not let it all slip away from when it just could have been the thing you have been waiting for.
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Omg totally relates to me right at this moment. lol. But yes i totally agree with you, most relationships dont work but sometimes it is worth it when you have the chance to kiss your "Hubby" out in the rain and you do it with confidence showing everyone you dont care. I wish i could have been the smart person though and remain not dating anyone but you know me, Katie. Those buterflies get to you. :(
ReplyDeletealthough i have never worn "his" letterman and i havent ever ran on to the feild and kissed him after a game either, alot of what you say i agree with. even though i am one of those people who have been in a relationship ever since Junior High, none of those have actually worked out, which i find kinda of ironic do to the fact that i know about 6 different couples who are highschool sweetheart my grandparents being one. but overall your right dont give up on anything just because of the statistics.
ReplyDeleteI think that is great if you're willing to make a high school relationship workout long term. For me, I enjoy being single too much. I have more fun hanging out with different friends, then worrying about having to make time for one person. I do believe though, when you meet the right person, the relationship will be totally worth the other sacrifices. Some people meet their soulmate early in life, whereas others might have to wait a little longer. However, if your right time happens to be high school, go for it!
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